Preventing jinns from falling in love with you and other related questions
Q0055: Salaam alaykum, there are so many cases of jinns falling in love with people. Does this happen to vulnerable people or to anyone. how can a person take precautions to prevent this from happening if possible, whether they are inside or outside. Thank you
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Wa alaykum as salam.
People of all ages can get possessed regardless of their religion, age, gender or ethnicity etc. Sometimes jinns will possess people to get their revenge on the person who may have accidently hurt them or urinated on them etc.
Other times jinns will simply find a person weak and easy to possess so they possess them. Possession can only occur when they are no longer protected by Allah and while the person is in a state of spiritual and mental weakness.
So if the person is indulging in sin, such as not wearing hijab, not praying, haram lust, music, smoking or drinking intoxicants etc these things create spiritual weakness. It may also be that the jinn saw someone, men or women, whom they felt attracted to and possessed them as a result.
But the most common cause of possession is black magic which is rife in many cultures around the world.
Mental weakness can occur in various circumstances such as when a person is drifting off the sleep, while experiencing extreme emotions such as anger, sadness and lust. Mental weakness can also occur when a person is day dreaming and meditating.
In all of these scenarios a person is not fully aware or drifting between the conscience and the unconscious mind sometimes referred to as the sub-conscience.
Whatever the reason for possession maybe the jinns "fall in love" with the victims in many of the cases, especially where the jinn is of an opposite gender to the victim. There are instances however where jinns have displayed homosexual behavior towards the victims or towards other people. Similar to human beings there are homosexual jinns too.
Another angle of looking at this is that a sister could get possessed by a male jinn which feels desire towards other women and the sister feels disgusted because she thinks its herself feeling such things.
La hawla wala quwwatha illa billah. There is no might or power except with Allah. May Allah protect us from such things.
The victim of jinn possession should always remember that they are pure and the jinns are filthy. Since the two individuals are sharing one body the character of the one who is stronger will be dominant. But a Muslim is pure and does not get dark or depraved thoughts. A pure Muslim does not indulge excessively in filling his stomach or fulfilling desires, even if they are halal.
Because over eating makes one lazy in worship and fulfilling ones desires too much weakens the heart so both things
harm the spiritual connection with Allah (azza wa jall).
The more the victim engages in promiscuous actions the more the jinns becomes convinced that it is in love with the person or the person belongs to them.
The jinns are like hormonal teenagers whom suffer from emotional mood swings. Their feelings of attraction are also exaggerate to the point they feel they are in love with the person over the smallest things. e.g. A girl may show a boy a small kind act of kindness such as a smile and the boy assume that she likes him. And the more he thinks about her the more he feel attracted to her.
Please see the practical advice below on how to prevent these things and overcome them too ishaAllah
People of all ages can get possessed regardless of their religion, age, gender or ethnicity etc. Sometimes jinns will possess people to get their revenge on the person who may have accidently hurt them or urinated on them etc.
Other times jinns will simply find a person weak and easy to possess so they possess them. Possession can only occur when they are no longer protected by Allah and while the person is in a state of spiritual and mental weakness.
So if the person is indulging in sin, such as not wearing hijab, not praying, haram lust, music, smoking or drinking intoxicants etc these things create spiritual weakness. It may also be that the jinn saw someone, men or women, whom they felt attracted to and possessed them as a result.
But the most common cause of possession is black magic which is rife in many cultures around the world.
Mental weakness can occur in various circumstances such as when a person is drifting off the sleep, while experiencing extreme emotions such as anger, sadness and lust. Mental weakness can also occur when a person is day dreaming and meditating.
In all of these scenarios a person is not fully aware or drifting between the conscience and the unconscious mind sometimes referred to as the sub-conscience.
Whatever the reason for possession maybe the jinns "fall in love" with the victims in many of the cases, especially where the jinn is of an opposite gender to the victim. There are instances however where jinns have displayed homosexual behavior towards the victims or towards other people. Similar to human beings there are homosexual jinns too.
Another angle of looking at this is that a sister could get possessed by a male jinn which feels desire towards other women and the sister feels disgusted because she thinks its herself feeling such things.
La hawla wala quwwatha illa billah. There is no might or power except with Allah. May Allah protect us from such things.
The victim of jinn possession should always remember that they are pure and the jinns are filthy. Since the two individuals are sharing one body the character of the one who is stronger will be dominant. But a Muslim is pure and does not get dark or depraved thoughts. A pure Muslim does not indulge excessively in filling his stomach or fulfilling desires, even if they are halal.
Because over eating makes one lazy in worship and fulfilling ones desires too much weakens the heart so both things
harm the spiritual connection with Allah (azza wa jall).
The more the victim engages in promiscuous actions the more the jinns becomes convinced that it is in love with the person or the person belongs to them.
The jinns are like hormonal teenagers whom suffer from emotional mood swings. Their feelings of attraction are also exaggerate to the point they feel they are in love with the person over the smallest things. e.g. A girl may show a boy a small kind act of kindness such as a smile and the boy assume that she likes him. And the more he thinks about her the more he feel attracted to her.
Please see the practical advice below on how to prevent these things and overcome them too ishaAllah
Practical advice
The jinn can see through your eyes and hear your thoughts so if that person does not protect themselves when they get undressed or going to the toilet, intimacy with ones spouse etc then they are only making the situation worse. Hence there are so many duas taught to us by the prophet (pbuh) to protect ourselves in such situations.
Please see the link below and the document attached to see how we can protect ourselves from the jinns that are on the outside and inside.
1. How to protect ourselves from jinn and magic
2. Also read or download this file below
Please see the link below and the document attached to see how we can protect ourselves from the jinns that are on the outside and inside.
1. How to protect ourselves from jinn and magic
2. Also read or download this file below
| Protective_measures_from_jinn_and_shayaateen.docx |
3. If you are already possessed with a lustful jinn which causes you to have sinful thoughts or engage in the private sin then please listen to this audio file every day. To make the audio more effective, listen to it with the intention of ruqya and keep saying "astaghfirullah" in your mind.
4. The victim must hate the jinn inside them for it always physically ugly and for encouraging them to evil. This idea needs to be reinforced by repeating it in ones mind because the jinns inside us can hear our thoughts.
5. Please click on this link to read a more detailed answer Why do jinns make us commit sins.
5. Please click on this link to read a more detailed answer Why do jinns make us commit sins.
Peace and blessings be upon the final messenger Muhammed (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) his family, companions and everyone who follow him in righteousness.
Kamal
Former Raqi
Kamal
Former Raqi